Have you ever seen such a super mummy ?She know
1/ how to take care of baby without any assistance
2/cooking
3/cleaning
4/ironing
5/ how to make money
All these are my imagination which I wanted to be .For gentleman, if you can find this type of wife, you are extremely fortunate. Normally , either you can get a housewife or career woman .It depends on what and how do you want . It cannot be perfect at all unless it is a robot. I have seen many family depend on house maid or babysitter or at least part time cleaner if they have small kids and both husband and wife are working at day time. In order to fulfill the family responsibility and try to catch up the modern living standard ,we have to work very hard till we feel very stressed and exhausted. If your partner or family member are very helpful and understanding, then you can have some rest .Otherwise you will suffer a lot as you may need to do all household chores after work or at least you have to take care of your kids .Even though you have a housemaid ,she may not cope with 3-4 kids and household chores.So here is the point I would like to highlight this common issue in order to let you have a happy and peaceful relationship and lifestyle,I would like to suggest a few things as below:
1/ Check carefully whether your partner is Cooperative whatever you request before marriage
2/Control your child birth well and limit the quantity of child depends on your both financial capability and manpower
3/ Plan the future family plan well with your partner before you try to pregnant as this is very crucial fact it can affect your entire life.
4/ Must have understanding between you and your partner if both of you are working
I have seen many couples failure in marriage and I noticed that problems arise after they have children.The possible reasons are:
1/ Not enough finance for family expenses
2/Never plan well for future family before married
3/ Both husband and wife are working and no times for each other
4/ Lack of understanding and tolerance for each other
Especially the men,they still want to behave like a single after married and they expect their partner to follow whatever they want to do and wherever they want to go without worries . But the women are totally different and more responsible for family. They care family more than the rest including husband. So the problems always arise if both of them not to try to understand each other and support each other.
I wish this article will help those of you are facing the above mentioned issues in order to prevent unwanted broken family in our human society.
